A good friend that I've known since 2006...we first met in Olympia, Washington.
When first we met - I noted his physical resemblance to Robert Redford, in his prime.
He bought not just one, but two sailboats - such was the level of passion and enthusiasm that my sailing tales - and our discussions - evoked him in...
I knew his wife and his children - and had shared in his joy - as his children grew into fine young adults.
I knew him as a man with a keen intellect, sharp wit, and a hearty sense of humor.
With work keeping me busy for the last 11 months - I had lost track of the passing of time - and hadn't realized that it was May of last year since I had heard from him. But, it wasn't unusual for us to go long stretches without talking...
I sent him an email earlier this week to check-in with him.
It bounced. His personal domain - no longer active.
That was worrying.
So, I sent him a message on LinkedIn...
Late yesterday afternoon, I tried calling one of the number's I had for him...it rolled to voice mail. I left a message.
My level of anxiousness grew overnight - when I searched for obituaries - and found a listing in his town, from June 23rd of last year. There wasn't a photo - but the age was about right, and although I didn't recall his middle name, I knew his middle initial - and that matched as well.
Today I tried calling the 2nd number I have for him.
It has been disconnected.
I am philosophical about death - and believe it is only a transition...not a finale. However, the loss of this friend is affecting me more than most. He was like a brother to me.
I reached out to some friends in Olympia, WA - and they confirmed - he had a massive heart attack.
I take solace in knowing that the number of those who wait for me on the other side - grows.
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